For those males suffering a relationship breakdown, especially where their long term partner or wife has physically & emotionally left, many men can easily tell you just what it feels like. It feels like you have been stabbed deep in the guts; it feels like you have deep internal rage but no way to properly express that rage; it feels as though everything in the past with that person now seems somehow pointless; it seems like you could have wasted many of the best years of your life; it feels as though the future is just a dark tunnel; it robs you of sound sleep; it can be a very hurtful place to be, & it often involves most of these feelings. This can all be dangerously depressing stuff, & made even worse if ‘your other half’ has left you for someone else, especially if the person you were left for is younger, or richer, or simply just the type of person that you would normally not like very much. It feels like an attack on your basic manhood, a form of indirect bullying; at least that’s what it really feels like deep down inside, down where it really hurts. And nobody likes being bullied. And it happens to good people all too often. Sometimes it’s our own fault, sometimes it’s not, but the feelings are more or less the same, simply because when we are left, it more or less screws up our lives for a long time! Or does it? That is a question that only the person who was left will eventually be able to answer. But, what I can tell you is this. In many cases where the woman has left the man, or vice versa, usually after a long relationship spanning some years, that person has ended up in a better place than where they had of been had that relationship stayed the way it was. That’s just a simple fact of life, & there are armies of people out there, of both genders, who have been ‘left’, who will attest to that simple fact………they eventually ended up much better off……. would never go back to that person who left them after their long relationship ended……they finally came out of it much happier, generally wiser & stronger in the long run! As always, the past becomes a foreign country. And almost as a payback, whenever the ‘leaver’ left for the wrong reasons, the person that actually left sometimes ends up eventually having a very bad time, their new relationship quickly turns sour, their later partners run off, or return to their previous lovers, or steal from them, or even die. None of which is very nice! This is called karma….& having closely watched it now for over 65 years……it never misses its mark…..ever! But long relationship breakdowns are really hard when they happen, & it does take quite a time to heal, but there is help during that healing process. So, if you are suffering in some or all of the ways described, for all those in the construction industry, that help is called MATES In Construction on 1300 642 111. Quite simply, everything has a solution, nobody needs to suffer alone, everything fully heals given time & MATES In Construction are there to help you navigate through those really tough times….24/7….& at no charge!